How to cleanse your energy after sex

how to cleanse after sexWhen we have sex we are exchanging energy. As a woman you are receiving and as a man you are giving. As women, we have to be more careful on the receiving end who we allow to give their energy to us. When we are having unconscious sex we are unaware of the energy exchanges because we are just using sex as a form to fill voids within ourself for instant gratification to feel better but actually on this vibration we attract lovers who are doing the same. Unconscious sex results in unbalanced energy. Whatever is going on with that person, their fears, their insecurities, their stress, their anger its all going to be left with imprints inside of you and you will definitely feel it.

Have you ever had sex with a person and afterwards you feel so confused, off balance and insecure? This is exactly what Im talking about. We have to keep our auras cleansed and stay on that high vibration so we can think clearly and access our intuition. We cant access our intuition when confusion or doubt is blocking it. We can only access intuition from a balanced state of mind.

I tried different things for cleansing energies and Ill share them with you in this article.

  1. Healing sound frequencies for your vagina (takes 20 minutes and very easy to do)

 There is a video I found on youtube which has these different sound frequencies for healing different conditions. I came across this and I wanted to try it. So its kind of like binaural beats for your vagina and to my surprise it actually works. What is does is it makes your vagina vibrate and tingle. Binaural beats are a way to train your brain to produce a certain frequency so for example when you stimulate your brain alpha waves the rest would be that you feel more relaxed and less stress and you present your brain with theta waves you might experience drowsiness and sleepiness.

This particular track is created by the rife frequency machine. The Rife machine is a frequency healing device created by Dr. Royal Raymond Rife. Dr. Rife was a great scientist who had the vision of inventing a frequency generator with the potential to heal all kinds of diseases.

As an inventor and scientist, he dedicated his life to study the relationship between frequency and disease. His research helped him to discover that all microorganisms, including cancer cells, viruses, and bacteria, have their own unique resonance frequency.

In a study with the Rife frequency machine 16 out of 16 people got cured from cancer by using these sound frequencies. Unfortunately the Rife machines are no longer available because the parts are so out of date but there are smaller companies that are creating some of the best modern Rife machines and one of them is BCX ultra.

So as you can see these healing sound frequencies are very powerful and can be used for many things this is why these are my go to tools for cleansing energy from my vagina.

A lot of emotions and traumas get stored in and around the vagina (second chakra) which I talk about a lot and these frequencies are going to help clear and heal those emotions and energy blocks. You will feel much better after listening to this track 

  1. Take an herbal bath with salt

Will immediately provide relief and cleanse surface energy but deeper cleansing might be necessary


Water and salt are two of the most powerful healing elements we have access to. If you have a bathtub this is a great way to immediately remove any surface fragments left in your aura field. In addition to salt you can also get really creative and make it even stronger. Black tourmaline is a powerful cleansing and protection crystal. You can put this in your water to enhance the medicine. You can add some essential oil of frankincense, white sage or lemon to add protection and cleansing benefits as well.

Take a shower and cleanse your body with soap before getting in the tub. Set an intention for your bath, to heal and cleanse the energies and aurus of the person. You can light candles and play your favorite relaxing music. Use about 2 cups of epson salt for your bath and you need to soak in it for at least 12 minutes.

  1. Smudge yourself

The act of burning sacred herbs to transmute yourself. Smudging is a powerful cleansing technique from the Native american tradition referring to the art of cleansing yourself.

How does it work: Smudging calls on the spirits of the sacred plants to drive away negative energies and put you back to a state of balance.

Palo Santo- Palo Santo has a healing essential oil inside of it that is traditionally used for many things such as colds, headaches and stress. Its used by many healers to keep the energy grounded and clear. It raises the vibration in preparation for meditation so this would be good combined with any of these other tools for cleansing energies.

Sage- Sage is what the native americans used for clearing space and ceremonies. Sage brings wisdom and is calming and healing

Cedar- deeply purifying, especially for clearing negative emotions and for healing and as a way to attract positive energy. Also used to bless a home before taking residence there, a tradition dating back to the Northwest and Western Canadian Native Americans, and believed to aid clairvoyance, revive the tired mind, body, and spirit, and stimulate contact with other worlds.

Juniper- used to purify and create a safe and sacred space

Lavendar- restores balance and creates a peaceful atmosphere

  1. Do a ceremony

This is for deeper healing, takes more time for preparation. Best if done on the full moon.

This is an amazing tool if you just want to remove everything and press the reset button on your relationships and what you are attracting.

In every ceremony you want to always use the elements of earth, water, fire and air. Set up a bowl of water for your water element. Of course you can get creative and enhance the energy of the intention by adding flower petals or essential oils to the bowl of water. You want to create a little alter space for your ceremony. Get a candle for the fire element or you can make a circle with candles around it and place yourself inside. You want to write the name or names of the person you want to cleanse from your aura field and what your going to do is read it and feel the energy withy our breath breathing everything out of your body. You can lie down in the circle you can even gather more earth elements to lie on or put on your belly and you want to just give everything to earth. After you are finished meditating on your intention you can burn the paper with the candle. If you want to make it even more powerful you can cleanse your chakras before doing the ceremony.